Personal Growth — Building Self Confidence

Self confidence is simply a belief and trust in yourself and your ability. It is a result of constantly overcoming  challenges. The more challenges you face and overcome it, the more you will learn about your ability. This in turn build up your self confidence.  More importantly, you will also learn of how to leverage this ability any time you face similar challenges.

Fears occur in us when are not confident, it occurs when we face something that are unknown to us, challenges that we have never face before. But when you overcome a fear once, you defeat that fear.It is something like your body immune system, building immunity with antibodies when it defeats a new bacteria. However, you will probably face those fears again at some point in your future. Facing it again shortly after defeating it the first time, it will be rather easy to recall how you defeat it and do it again. By doing this over and over again, it will become second instinct and you will know the best way to react to these fears again. This is mastering your fear. This is personal growth.

So never run away from your fears, stand up strong and face it with your ability. Even you without realizing, your body are constantly building the ability to withstand the fear. Just like bungee jumping, if you keep jumping again and again, soon you will find that it not as scary as before.

With this mastery and growth will build self confidence, you will know exactly what to do or how to react. It become courage, and conquering through the obstacles easily. Through all of this, you will begin to trust yourself more. You will believe in your ability to do great things. You will eliminate a great deal of doubt and replace it with true confidence. This is what the circle of success is all about, you did it once, and you know tat you can do it again!

I strongly believe that all of us has all the self confidence we will ever need to do anything. It is within us. It is simply a matter of locating this confidence and bringing it out when we need it most.

Locate your self confidence through personal challenges; once you find it, you’ll know what to do with it. One recommended resource, Panic Away, is a revolutionary technique to overcome your fear and anxiety. Great resource for building self confidence, it is dynamic and applicable..

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Richmond

Founder, Dream-Turners

3 ways to excel at work…

Ever dream of being the top employee in your organisation, surpasses your colleagues and grab the best promotions or salary increments? Yes! I know many had pondered on this question and today I am going to show you 3 ways that will make you a better team member at work. No down & dirty tricks, or nasty politics, but some good habits and mindset that set you up into the good books of your colleagues and bosses.

1. Be generous and proactive. Sounds familiar? Proactive is certainly a key to all successes. You must be actively ahead of your work, instead of waiting for work to come to you or wait for customers to take the first step. Take the initiative and go after it, “create” work for yourself, design and propose new solutions to business processes or and tasks that you are having trouble with, reach out to your customers and build relationships, propose projects. See? There’s a lot that you can do. Don’t worry about creating more work for yourself, and don’t worry that you won’t get credit for it. In the long run, you will be creating a great impression in everyone. Creating work for yourself is not a bad thing at all! Because you make this work happen, you can literally control it, influence and direct your work to your desired results. With that in mind, be generous too! Always add value to your work, value-addedness is a critical factor at work, it determines your importance in your organization. If you don’t add value, you will be soon on the chopping board! Again, don’t worry about not gaining anything back from your bosses. If they don’t appreciate that you are giving back 3 times more than your boss pay you, other organizations will be more than willing to pay more for you!

2. Respect your work. From the first point of being generous, it doesn’t mean that you are generously doing a lot of things, and not claiming credit for it. Be sure that there are people out there to take advantage of your generosity and take things for granted. Take pride in your own work and be sure to take any credit you deserved. Do some publicity for your excellent work, remember to cc your own bosses in collaboration emails and always present your work. Respect your work and take ownership of it, otherwise, people will be leveraging on your “kindness” and propelling them away from you.

3. Ask better questions. This is the ULTIMATE way to differentiate yourself from others. Asking questions is important at work, it is a way people tell if you are engaged or not. But it is not enough to make any difference from others, because everyone else will be doing the same. Ask more constructive and thoughtful questions, coupled with great details. People will feel appreciated when they hear your question and able to feel the commitment and sincerity in your conversation. Some examples of better questions, “How long will it take for your team to complete on this project?” is a good question, it can be better in this way : “Will it take 2 weeks for your team to complete on the first phase of the project and probably take another week before we can see the final result?”. This is a better question as it is rich in content and you had put some thoughts into it. Another example, “How can I contact you?”, again, try including more details “Can I call you or email you so that we can work closely in this joint project? I think this way we are better informed of anything that happens on either side.” You are likely to be more appreciated in the latter question you asked right?

         

With this 3 habits, you are set to become one of the greatest asset your organization owned. With such “unfair advantage”, you can expect many opportunities coming to you. See yourself as a great leader at work, others will be influenced by your exemplary skills, and will want to collaborate and work for you! For more case studies, try getting this book, The Leadership Challenge: How to Make Extraordinary Things Happen in Organizations, great case studies and ways to approach work and making things happen in your favor.  Another legendary book that talks about effectiveness at work,The 8th Habit: From Effectiveness to Greatness , you will be inspired to be more than just effective, but more effective than ever before!

 

You may be interested in these too :

• The Now Habit at Work: Perform Optimally, Maintain Focus, and Ignite Motivation in Yourself and Others
• Gung Ho! Turn On the People in Any Organization
• Credibility: How Leaders Gain and Lose It, Why People Demand It

 

I am sure the 3 ways to excel at work will work for you… Be sure to start changing the way you work today!

Richmond

Founder – Dream Turners

Do you know that you are using less than 10% of your brain power??

Albert Einstein once said that we only use about 10% of our brain's potential...

That leaves a whopping 90% of your brainpower controlled by your subconscious.

And by definition, we can't know what's going on in our subconscious... that means you're controlled by whatever's stored in the dark recesses of your mind.

Most of the time, you're basically a puppet -- driven by forces from deep inside you, that you don't understand or know about.

Fortunately, there is a way to get your conscious and subconscious mind to work together effortlessly, and reclaim some of that unused 90% of your brain.

Just check out the video here.

Mind Secrets Exposed 2.0 reveals the art and science of getting what you want...

It's the result of years of painstaking personal research. My friends Greg & Alvin tested to see what actually works, recorded their results, and put together this amazing program that shows you how to do it, too.

I had given up on my dreams before I finally uncovered these secrets... don't make the same mistake I almost did.

Watch this video for the secrets here.

We all have a "voice" in our heads... That voice is your subconscious, and it can make you or break you, depending on whether you're in control or not. This is a rare chance for you to be in control, and steer your own ship to where YOU want it to go.

Don't waste another second of this incredible opportunity – be the one to master your brain today!

Richmond

Founder – Dream Turners

Taking Control & Going with the Flow…

Successful people always have things under their control. You will always see that they are able to manipulate, or make things happen in their favor. Today, I will go share with you their secrets… Generally speaking, their actions can be categorized into two, Taking Control of Things around them, and Going with the Flow of Things happening around them. Such actions are driven by a millionaire habit, “Be proactive!”. We will talk about this in this post.

Taking Control of Things

You must of heard of “Winners make things happen…”. Yes, being in control means controlling things that will happen around them. They are 100% committed to themselves and their visions, and take every step to ensure that things happen in their favor. Once things start to drift away from their ideal state, these people will go all out to turn things around, like influencing others, micro-manage certain minor tasks, fix issues themselves. They are always proactive to look out for things that they can manipulate and drive things to work for them. That is why you will see them very good at spotting opportunities.

Going with the Flow

Although they are powerful super beings, there will be inevitable events that happen which spoil their plan and disrupt the progress to their ideal state. But you will never see them ranting or complaining that their great plans have failed. Inevitable events are like when stock market suddenly plunges to rock bottom, or a change in government law, or a natural disasters. No one can be powerful enough to make such events change, but successful individuals are dynamic and willing to change their strategy and plans to continue on their journey to success. They accept that things can change and so they have to change to stay in the flow with it.

Many people failed because they are not proactive enough, allowing things to drive their decisions and their plans and in some cases, resulting in big losses. They miss out a lot of good opportunities or decision to take real action to rectify the problem, and ending up waiting for “miracles” to happen. Instead, many will start giving excuses that things are not happening in their favor and they had not choice to give up.

Remember, you have the ability to change things and decide how things will happen! Be proactive in every thing you do, you will feel the difference. If you haven’t heard of this famous book,The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens: The Ultimate Teenage Success Guide , I strongly recommend you to get it for yourself. I had several editions of this book and I had benefitted a lot every time I read. Other related books are useful too, you might be interested in: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People , which is one of the BEST self-help book everyone should get. Get this if you want to start making a difference in your life today!

    

The Blueprint to wealth and happiness…

It's true.

Wealth and happiness actually does have a blueprint that you can follow.

For most of us, getting what we want seems like a mysterious process that we can never figure out.

But there are strategies and techniques you can follow... laws of the universe that will lead you to where you want to go, and they work every time.

But first you have to know how to clear your subconscious of all the past garbage and lies that other people put in there throughout your life, usually without your consent or knowledge.

This video tells you more

Most of us aren't aware of it, but our subconscious mind is being activated and reprogrammed all the time.

Your subconscious makes no value judgements. It takes whatever your conscious mind puts into it, and runs with it.

So you need to be really careful what you feed to your subconscious. If you're in a constant negative mindset, then that's what you get in your life.

If you know how to program your mind properly, then you can get exactly what you want in life, whether it's wealth, romance, good relationships, satisfying work, creativity, happiness...

Mind Secrets Exposed 2.0 gives you the power to unlocking the true, limitless potential of your mind, and can transform just about any aspect of your life so you're literally living your dreams.

You now have the chance to achieve anything you want, including:

* Success Attraction
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* Everlasting Happiness
* Subconscious Mind Healings
* And much more...

It's time to stop reading and start
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These are the Life-Changing Secrets of the most Successful,Happiest and Richest people in the world!

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Founder – Dream Turners

Why do I share all my secrets with you?

This is one question that I had answered countless of time. Not everyone get it, some are just baffled when they think about my answer. It is just illogical to them. Why are you sharing all your success secrets to everyone for FREE?

My Answer is simple, I believe by giving what I can give, I can get back more in the end.

I don’t expect anything for return, because by reading this and you learnt something from my posts, you already given me something far more valuable than money. It is satisfaction. It is my passion to share my knowledge, my secrets of success with you and one day you become successful, I will feel very happy for you! This is what I am looking for. People who are baffled with this are those who have yet tasted this kind of satisfaction. Your passion drives your hunger for satisfaction, and fulfilling them give you the best feeling in the world.

Guess what, when I am sharing my passion, my knowledge and my experience, I am attracting a lot of other things too! Others had approached me to look for answers to their problems with success and others even offered me to do workshops! See what I mean? Being passionate about something, attracts opportunities! Making money from your passion is a by-product of being passionate. So I don’t worry about money at all, and merely focusing on getting the feeling of satisfaction that I am hungry for. It will come to me naturally.

How about competition? There isn’t ANY competition here, there are opportunities everywhere! I believe in abundance, no one lose out in anyway, because in the end we all gain something.

How about selfish people who wanted all the material gains out there? I can simply tell you that they don’t last long. Here is a story that illustrate this…

A philosopher found a way to travel to Heaven and Hell. He was very curious of how different are heavenly beings and the hellish beings were. So when he reached Hell, and what he saw were people there are eating gruel with a long spoon, about the length of two meters. They just could not use those spoons to feed themselves. The spoons are just too long to reach their mouths. Eventually people there are weak and thin, and never happy.

So the philosopher went to Heaven, and guess what he saw. He saw people eating the same gruel and using the same long spoons! But everyone there are happy, strong and healthy. Why is it so? What the philosopher saw was people in heaven are feeding one another. They used their long spoons to feed others while other fed them back. So in the end, everyone was full and satisfied.

Sharing is not a bad thing. Being generous is not losing out. You will get more back in the time to come. Unable to satisfy their bottomless hunger for material gains, selfish people eventually gave up. So I always believe in sharing my knowledge, my experience with everyone who wants to succeed.

Soon, I will be releasing a FREE e-book that will help you to succeed and eventually turn your dreams to reality! Do subscribe to my blog and the download link will be sent to you when it is ready. I promise to share only the best things with you!

 

Richmond

Founder

Dream Turners

99% of the entire world don’t know about this….

Today, I am sharing something that will make a difference in your life…

 

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It's all about what 99% of the world is TAUGHT to do..

And most likely you are part of that 99% ..

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